I would identify, were I forced, as a true sovereign.
Not in some commercial way.
My kinks have always been predominately psychological. It's not so much the play, but the wielding of power, that I enjoy. The gravity of the mind and its ability to draw another into a world created of a moment. A shared secret.
Sex, being so close to our primest instincts, threads throughout our minds and touches nearly every breath of our existence. These dynamics surface insight from the deepest reaches.
Seduction, they say, is always more singular than sex.
(And commands the higher price.)